Comments for Is this the Real Life, Is this just Fantasy... Caught in a Landslide, No Escape from Reality http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com Second Living Sat, 12 Sep 2009 00:26:03 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Happy Rezzday to Me! by Sciamachy Moran http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/happy-rezzday-to-me/#comment-225 Sciamachy Moran Sat, 12 Sep 2009 00:26:03 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=189#comment-225 :-) You will be in on Sunday, right? BIG party! :-)

You will be in on Sunday, right? BIG party!

]]> Comment on Happy Rezzday to Me! by Harper http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/happy-rezzday-to-me/#comment-224 Harper Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:32:05 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=189#comment-224 Congratulations to you, Kezzy. My own 2nd rez-day will be coming up in a month or so, and I can understand how the milestone feels. Congratulations to you, Kezzy. My own 2nd rez-day will be coming up in a month or so, and I can understand how the milestone feels.

]]> Comment on Jeepers Creepers Where Did You Get Those Peepers? by Sciamachy Moran http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/08/31/jeepers-creepers-where-did-you-get-those-peepers/#comment-222 Sciamachy Moran Sun, 06 Sep 2009 01:00:48 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=187#comment-222 When I lived on a mainland sim, at first I left my land open for all to come in & cross as long as they didn't enter the house uninvited. Then one time someone I thought I was friends with decided to grief me with a script weapon that whacked me all over the inside of my house, so I banned everyone by default & had a whitelist type access (i.e. if your name's not down, you're not coming in). Now, I have no land, but if I want privacy I'll either fly up to the top of the sim, where you're kind of in the top of the cube, or I'll just log out. When I lived on a mainland sim, at first I left my land open for all to come in & cross as long as they didn’t enter the house uninvited. Then one time someone I thought I was friends with decided to grief me with a script weapon that whacked me all over the inside of my house, so I banned everyone by default & had a whitelist type access (i.e. if your name’s not down, you’re not coming in). Now, I have no land, but if I want privacy I’ll either fly up to the top of the sim, where you’re kind of in the top of the cube, or I’ll just log out.

]]> Comment on Kezzy Forwzy by Antistar http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/kezzy-forwzy/#comment-219 Antistar Fri, 24 Jul 2009 15:08:50 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?page_id=29#comment-219 Well, HELLO!!!)) Well, HELLO!!!))

]]> Comment on AARGH Frustration! by Riko http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/aargh-frustration/#comment-214 Riko Fri, 29 May 2009 09:58:53 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/aargh-frustration/#comment-214 Your friends will be still here hon. This is transient, you will be back before you know it. Your friends will be still here hon. This is transient, you will be back before you know it.

]]> Comment on AARGH Frustration! by Sciamachy Moran http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/aargh-frustration/#comment-213 Sciamachy Moran Fri, 22 May 2009 15:59:36 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/aargh-frustration/#comment-213 Kezzy, hun, you should know you will always have a friend in me, whether I'm in SL or not. I miss you too & I hope everything works out right for you. I'm only in SL on Sunday evenings these days, and occasional forays when someone's having a birthday bash they want a DJ for or whatever. Kezzy, hun, you should know you will always have a friend in me, whether I’m in SL or not. I miss you too & I hope everything works out right for you. I’m only in SL on Sunday evenings these days, and occasional forays when someone’s having a birthday bash they want a DJ for or whatever.

]]> Comment on A Delay in posting by invowisse http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2008/06/17/a-delay-in-posting/#comment-212 invowisse Fri, 24 Apr 2009 00:46:52 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=42#comment-212 I'm the only one in this world. Can please someone join me in this life? Or maybe death... I’m the only one in this world. Can please someone join me in this life? Or maybe death…

]]> Comment on The end of another working week by Sciamachy Moran http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2009/03/20/the-end-of-another-working-week/#comment-207 Sciamachy Moran Fri, 20 Mar 2009 12:02:36 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=178#comment-207 It's not as if you didn't know I get riled up about that subject, we'd been there before: it's well-known, well-documented, surrounded by stripey yellow tape & danger signs. Up to you if you want to go there, but it shouldn't be something that you didn't know about, not having gone there twice. I don't actually get riled over many other things - I think you can count them on the fingers of one ear, just that. It’s not as if you didn’t know I get riled up about that subject, we’d been there before: it’s well-known, well-documented, surrounded by stripey yellow tape & danger signs. Up to you if you want to go there, but it shouldn’t be something that you didn’t know about, not having gone there twice. I don’t actually get riled over many other things – I think you can count them on the fingers of one ear, just that.

]]> Comment on Drama! OMG! OMG! by Kezzy Forwzy http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2008/07/29/drama-omg-omg/#comment-206 Kezzy Forwzy Fri, 20 Mar 2009 09:49:13 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=89#comment-206 Hi Trish - most likely! check out http://www.secondlife.com for all the information you need Hi Trish – most likely!
check out http://www.secondlife.com for all the information you need

]]> Comment on Relationship Woe by Kezzy Forwzy http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/relationship-woe/#comment-205 Kezzy Forwzy Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:15:51 +0000 http://kezzyforwzy.wordpress.com/?p=64#comment-205 This sounds terrible. I was in the other position, the position of your partner - I was dedicating all my time to Second Life and refusing the attentions of my RL partner, which lead to extreme arguments and fights. In the end though I realised I was escaping into SL to get away from the horribleness of my relationship, and finally left him. I am not in a great place though, lost my independance and even though I have the time to persue anything in Second Life I want, I rarely attend just for pleasure, more for work related things. The only thing I can say to you is try to seek help yourself. You are not alone even if you feel you are. Talk to a counsellor, your doctor, I am aware you have probably tried already to talk to your partner and seen that that will not work. How about writing everything down in a letter? Even if you do not give your partner the letter, it can be exceptionally therapeutic to get everything you feel in black and white for you to be able to see the best way to tackle it. Second Life is an addiction, and it is very easy to escape and forget that you do have a Real Life. I hope that you get a chance to show your partner how much his addiction to the virtual is making you feel unwanted, uncared for - even working out a compromise in which he can play at a certain timetable but then have time put aside for each other too. From the past history it seems that he has an addiction problem but managed to overcome one before, and can do this again. I wish you all the best luck and please keep in contact if you think I can help. This sounds terrible. I was in the other position, the position of your partner – I was dedicating all my time to Second Life and refusing the attentions of my RL partner, which lead to extreme arguments and fights. In the end though I realised I was escaping into SL to get away from the horribleness of my relationship, and finally left him. I am not in a great place though, lost my independance and even though I have the time to persue anything in Second Life I want, I rarely attend just for pleasure, more for work related things.

The only thing I can say to you is try to seek help yourself. You are not alone even if you feel you are. Talk to a counsellor, your doctor, I am aware you have probably tried already to talk to your partner and seen that that will not work. How about writing everything down in a letter? Even if you do not give your partner the letter, it can be exceptionally therapeutic to get everything you feel in black and white for you to be able to see the best way to tackle it.

Second Life is an addiction, and it is very easy to escape and forget that you do have a Real Life. I hope that you get a chance to show your partner how much his addiction to the virtual is making you feel unwanted, uncared for – even working out a compromise in which he can play at a certain timetable but then have time put aside for each other too. From the past history it seems that he has an addiction problem but managed to overcome one before, and can do this again. I wish you all the best luck and please keep in contact if you think I can help.

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